Tuesday, August 5, 2014

♥g o s h ! 08.04.2014: JanisBoBanis♥

*Rollin' up myself a Bloggin' Blunt*

I woke up and logged on this mornin' to find that JanisBoBanis had been workin' on the railroad all night...Lemme tell ya'll a lil bit about my JanisBoBanis...

We all have our BFFs and some of us, including myself have more than one BFF.  The internet has made the world such a smaller place.  It's brought people into our lives that otherwise we'd probably never know the other existed.  I've gained some pretty amazing friends over here in this little virtual world we know as Second Life.  So so so many people put on their profiles how they keep SL out of RL and vice versa if someone can't differentiate the two, then they probably won't be my friend anyway, but it's really hard to keep these friendships from trickling over into our "Real Lives".  I have a few besties...Some that even though our "SLives" have taken different paths still nothing breaks that bond...but then there's JanisJoplin Delicioso.  She's my BFF FOREVER!  She's my person.  We are so in tune with one another that she showed up at my set tonight at Momo's Surf Club wearing the EXACT same thing as me.  We didn't plan it.



We so fancy huh?  We're awesome even when we don't mean to be lol.  She's the most amazing woman I've never met.  We've known each other roughly SIX years!  This woman knows me inside and out (Not lesbianistically).  Met her one mornin' while Tree and I were hangin' out at Serra's Flyin' Armadillo.  We became fast friends and it's been one hell of a ride.  We're like a digital Thelma & Louise (Minus the dyin' & Butt sex part).  The female pixel forms of Jimmy Fallon & Justin Timberlake hashtag #lolololololololololololololololololol.  She's like the fruit to my loop.  The sugar to my smack.  Frost to my flake. The cocoa to my puff (ok that one sounds dirty).  I think you get the drift though right?  We're like Iona and Andie Walsh (Wonders who will get that reference)!  She really has stuck by me through thick and thin.  We laugh.  We cry.  We bitch. We gossip. I pushed her away because of Deke...She was one of the main ones besides my kids that he would threaten...I don't think he could've done anything really, but I wasn't taking anymore chances with him.  Thankfully, I was able to get away from him and she was awesome, came right back when I needed her most.  Didn't even skip a beat. I will never spend another day without her in my life (still non-lesbianistically).  We're TWO BROKE BITCHES and that's just fine with me :o)


What I'm Wearing:
Bathrobe: [K] Spa Collection - Pink 
Hair: .Ploom. Recycled
Jewelry: Maxi Gossamer 
Manicure: g o s h ! Fingers & Toesies - Pink Tipsy

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Sunday, August 3, 2014

♥~Momo's Surf Club~♥

Ok Ok...We all know that Momo's Surf Club is my absolute FAVORITE club in SL!  I love everything about Momo's.  We have an awesome staff and an even better VIP Group.  Our BUMS take such good care of us.  There really isn't anything I don't like about Momo's.  I've been the Promotions Manager for quite a few months and I've loved it.  When Kata asked me if I would be General Manager -- I was ecstatic!!!  Let me give you a little bit of my history with Momo's...

When Deke and I were together, we were constantly looking for cool places to hangout at.  The feat seemed quite hard, as there are SO MANY clubs in SL.  The ones that seemed like would be good...were empty.  The ones that weren't empty...were silent.  It was lookin' like a lose/lose.  I asked my BFF Treeguy where some cool places to hang out were.  He said that he was DJing at this club called Momo's and that the people were pretty cool.  He sent me a TP and there ya go...

Deke and I would drop by there occasionally and always had a good time when we did.  Everyone there was always so friendly to us.  When I started to DJ again, I again asked Tree if he knew of some good places to DJ...again, he said Momo's.  He just happened to be the DJ Manager at the time and so he sent me an application.  Kata contacted me and we set up a DJ Audition.  Audition night came, and I fell instantly in love with everyone at the club.  Everyone was so welcoming, and so friendly.  I was in a real rocky relationship with Deke.  We fought all the freakin' time, but it was nice that we had a place that we both liked.  Finally, found a place where he *ACTUALLY* liked people.  I thought this was amazing! And it really really was.  This goes on great for awhile... well I mean the Momo's aspect of it anyway lol...Deke and I were literally falling apart.  He'd been so mean to me for the last four years...I was just done.  I had no good feelings toward him at all.  I didn't care anymore.  I was afraid of him.  Everytime I tried to break off whatever we had, he would threaten my RL.  My RL Family, My RL Friends.  So, I'd start talking to him again and again.  Each time it only escalated more and more...Finally, I'd had enough...I couldn't do it anymore.  He wasn't gonna stop threatening my family.  He wasn't gonna stop calling my RL son at work. He just wasn't gonna stop.  Even though I was doing everything he said I was supposed to do to make him stop...He still wasn't stopping...

I spent most nights in tears.  DJing wasn't fun anymore, because when I tried to DJ, he'd be yelling at me in Skype.  My friends, they couldn't understand how I would sit and let him treat me like this...and to be honest...I couldn't understand it either.  I knew that one day enough would finally be enough I would have the nerve to leave and I wouldn't be scared anymore...I just wanted it right then...and I caved.  Time and time again I caved.  I wasn't helping out at Momo's or being able to spend the time there that I wanted.  I didn't even want to be on SL anymore.  I'd lost my very best friend.  I was told on a daily basis that I was useless and I started to believe it.  I was told that people at Momo's hated me. So...I said enough's enough.  I quit.  Well I tried to quit (Kata wouldn't let me and I thank goodness for her!).  We decided to give it time and finally he showed his ass (I knew he would eventually).

Momo's stood by me and offered me sanctuary.  They showed me that they are my true friends and my true family.  Especially, Kata...Man...If ya'll don't know this woman....Your lives haven't been enlightened yet.  She is one of the most amazing people I've ever encountered on SL.  She listened to me night after night.  My insecurities, my fears.  She never made me feel judged or stupid.  She listened and she gave me friendship.  I was able to get Janis back in my life and we went right back like we didn't skip a beat.

I guess my whole babblation in this is...I owe so much to Momo's and the people of Momo's.  They helped me not only in SL...but they helped me in my RL too.  I'm stronger because of them.  I was finally able to take those rose colored glasses off...and I'm grateful.

So all I can say is...If you truly want an awesome experience...Visit Momo's Surf Club.  I am finally back to being me again.  Man I've missed me!!!  I'm celebrating MY Independence!!!!


What I'm Wearing:

Bodysuit: ...:::Beautiful Dirty Rich:::... - Stars & Stripes (SLink Boots Included)
Hair: Eaters Coma - Hair 21 - Light Platinum Blonde
Jewelry: Maxi Gossamer - Rings: Giselle Opal Set - Black, Necklace: Love Rocker
Headband: I <3 Mesh - Glam Bunny Ears
Manicure: (Shameless Plug) g o s h ! Fingers & Toesies - Independence Day!

Here's to INDEPENDENCE!!!! YEEYEE!!!
<3Ana

Friday, August 1, 2014

♥g o s h ! LOTD - Purdy Neko - 08.01.2014♥


Tonight at Redneck Rendezvous we're havin' a NEKO event.  That's right! Grab those tails (hehe) and those ears, and mosey on over.  There's gonna be $1000L on the board to start and that goes up with each page...so the more the merrier :o)  The fun begins at 6:00PM SLT!! I'll be your DJ playin' some HICKHOP, RED DIRT MUSIC, & Everything else ya'll wanna hear!!


What I'm wearing:
Romper: REDGRAVE
Hair: Exile After The Rain Sparkle (I like this hair a lot ok!)
Boots: Dirty Princess Madame Butterfly Princess Pink
Jewelry: Maxi Gossamer Giselle Black
Manicure: (shameless plug) g o s h ! Fingers & Toesies

Thursday, July 31, 2014

♥g o s h ! LOTD:07.31.2014♥

I wake up early in da mornin' 'round the crack o dawn & wave to my neighbors like Whassup?!?!

Today started as any ordinary day and it remained just that. Ordinary lol. I DJ'd this mornin' at my favoritest place in the entire SL Word!!! Momo's Surf Club!  Now that I'm back in the swing of things, I'm lookin' to get my blog resyndicated in the SL world.  I've applied for a couple already so *fingers crossed*...

I think I'll start doin' some reflections...Use this as an online diary :o) I mean, isn't that really what blogging is all about?  I've blogged and blogged about things in the past, but starting again this time after a very public and abusive relationship...I dunno...I just feel like I'm a bit more focused than before.  Finally, I have the freedom to use my words how I see fit...without the unscrupulous lil dekehead criticizing my every word and/or action.  I was starting to run so thin that I just didn't even want to get up and get on my PC, or check my phone...but...Now I have freedom.  Complete Freedom!  I feel like I've been liberated.  So maybe this is a comeback post lol who knows.  I'm really just typing the words that enter my head.  How joyous for ya'll huh?

I've started working on a "Various Women You Meet In Your Life" continuous blog so far I've done one lolol...

Let's just focus on today though, shall we? Here's what I'm wearing :o)






 
Top: .: Vive Nine :.  Softy Silky Copped Blouse in Blush
Shorts: { Mon Tissu } Cuffed Denim Shorts 
Leggings: .:VILLENA:.  Polkadot Leggings - Pink
Boots: J's  Western Boots
Hair: Exile  After The Rain Sparkle - Blonde (I got this from the Hair Fair, I don't know if it's available in the store)
Jewelry: Maxi Gossamer Necklace: Love Rocker, Rings: Giselle Set - Black
Belt: Izzie's  Studded Leather Belt - Pink
Buckle: g o s h !  Female Bull Buckle (Animated) (Free!  Haha Just ask me for it: Anastasia Bergbahn)

Good Mornin', Good Afternoon, Good Night--Whichever it may be in your part of the world!
See ya'll later!

Love ya, Mean it...
 

Tuesday, July 29, 2014

♥ Various Women You Meet In Your Life ♥

--The Various Women You Meet In Life--
Chances are you have come across her in your daily life, met her in the club or hell you might've even married her! Here's a challenge for ya'll...post your version of The Various Women You Meet In Life
#1 The Ice Queen --
My Costume is Snow Queen by Caverna Obscura -- Gorgeous costume!

She's beautiful. She's Classy. She's off limits. She's cold as ice.
Do you accept the challenge?
Join ‪#‎SLSelfies‬ and show us yours!
https://www.facebook.com/groups/secondlifeselfies/


Saturday, June 28, 2014

♥ G o s h ! Spongebob Fingers & Toesies ♥

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